Ashanti reflected on the torrent of messages, “It makes you feel a little scared.
This is a red line being crossed.
Obviously, my family along with me, it’s kind of affecting everyone.

Ashanti in 2021 at the Soul Train Awards.Credit:Paras Griffin/Getty
They didn’t ask to be a part of this.”
But the messages “progressively turned into something deadly,” she said.
“He started sending pictures of my car, parked in the front of the theater.

Ashanti at VH1 Hip Hop Honors in New York City in 2009.EUGENE MIM/Getty
He started sending pictures of my house, aerial shots, shots of the front door.
Okay,” Ashanti recalled thinking.
“In my situation, he was convicted, and we were hoping and praying that it was done.

We felt that that was going to be it,” Ashanti reflected.
“But unfortunately, it kind of kept going on and on.”
Hurd would stand trial for stalking a total of four times between 2009 and 2016.

At the 2014 trial, Hurd opted to represent himself, which led to his being able topersonally cross-examineAshanti.
“It’s really weird.
He was handed a maximum sentence of four years prison time but was released one year later.

Devar Hurd in Manhattan Supreme Court in 2014.Jefferson Siegel/NY Daily News via Getty
The coupleannounced their engagementand Ashanti’s pregnancy the following April, and in August,welcomed their first babytogether.

Ashanti and Nelly attend the 2024 Baby2Baby Gala on Nov. 9, 2024.Rodin Eckenroth/WireImage