“Although sometimes being kind is great, you gotta lay down the law and protect yourself.”

ENTERTAINMENT WEEKLY: First, a two-part bungee jumping date question.

It looked terrifying, and it’s very impressive that you ended up jumping twice.

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Dotun and Charity take a leap of faith on ‘The Bachelorette’.ABC

How long did you and Dotun have to stand there and psych yourself up to jump the first time?

CHARITY LAWSON:In all honesty, the date moved pretty quickly.

We looked at each other the whole time.

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Charity and her guys on the ‘Barbie’-themed date.ABC

I personally refused to look down otherwise I would’ve thrown up or fainted.

What did you learn from their no-nonsense approach?

The scouts were definitely about their business on the group date.

I appreciated having them there to help and have some extra eyes on the guys.

Although sometimes being kind is great, you gotta lay down the law and protect yourself.

The night before your one-on-one date with Xavier, Brayden left pretty abruptly after a tough conversation with you.

I did what was best for me at the time, with all that I knew.

What was going through your mind at that moment?

Nothing at that moment was going to change anything.

I didn’t care, because the choice and decision was made.

Finally, your style so far this season has been flawless.

What is your favorite look that we’ve seen you wear so far?

I love a pretty in pink moment!

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